dismay
Word family
- dismayedadjectiveB2
- dismayingadjectiveC1
- dismayinglyadverbC1
Synonym discussion
Sense: noun/1
All four words describe negative reactions when something goes wrong, but they differ in intensity and focus. Disappointment is the most general term — the sadness you feel when something is not as good as you hoped or expected. Dismay adds an element of sudden upset or shock: you are not just disappointed, but troubled and unsettled by what happened. Distress is stronger still, implying mental suffering or anxiety, not mere disappointment. Letdown is an informal noun for an event or experience that disappoints, less often used for the feeling itself. For example, missing a bus is a disappointment; having a job offer withdrawn after you had accepted it causes dismay; learning your house has been burgled causes distress.
Common collocations
Etymology
Dismay comes from Old French desmaier, meaning 'to deprive of strength or courage.' It was formed from des- (a prefix meaning reversal) and maier ('to have power or be able'), which is related to the Latin magis ('more'). Over time, the idea of losing physical power shifted to losing emotional strength, leading to the modern meaning of sudden disappointment or fear.