distress
Word family
- distressedadjectiveB2
- distressingadjectiveB2
- distressinglyadverbC1
- distressfuladjectiveC1
Synonym discussion
Sense: noun/1
While all four words describe forms of suffering, they differ in intensity and context. Distress (B2) is the broadest term — it covers emotional pain, worry, and mental strain triggered by life events such as bad news or personal problems. Anguish (C1) suggests a more intense, almost unbearable mental or physical pain, often tied to regret or loss. Agony (C1) is the strongest of the group, describing extreme suffering that can be either physical or emotional, and often implies a duration of intense pain. Sorrow (B2) is a gentler term focused on deep sadness, especially related to loss or disappointment — it lacks the urgent, agitated quality of distress. Grief (B2) is specific to loss through death or separation and comes with predictable stages (shock, denial, acceptance). For everyday use, distress is the most versatile: one can feel distress over a failed exam, a health scare, or a relationship problem. Use anguish for deeper, more agonising pain; sorrow for quiet, reflective sadness; grief only for bereavement or equivalent loss.
Common collocations
Etymology
The word 'distress' entered English in the 1200s from Old French 'destresse', which came from Latin 'districtus', meaning 'drawn apart' or 'hindered'. The original idea was of being pulled in opposite directions — stretched too thin. Over time, the meaning shifted from physical constraint to the emotional pain and worry that such a state produces. By the 1500s, it was also being used for dangerous situations (like a ship in distress) and, by the 1900s, for financial hardship (distress sale) and goods sold under pressure.