tiring
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Synonym discussion
Sense: adjective/1
All four describe experiences that consume your energy, but they differ in intensity and focus. 'Tiring' is the most general and mildest of the group — it simply means the activity makes you want to rest, as in 'a tiring day at the office.' 'Exhausting' is much stronger; it means the experience leaves you with no energy at all, like running a marathon or caring for a sick relative for days. 'Draining' leans toward emotional or mental depletion — a difficult conversation with a friend can be emotionally draining even if you have not moved a muscle. 'Wearing' suggests a slower, cumulative fatigue, like the effect of commuting three hours every day. Use 'tiring' for everyday situations, 'exhausting' for extreme ones, 'draining' for emotional toll, and 'wearing' for long-term gradual fatigue.
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Etymology
The word 'tiring' comes from the verb 'tire', which entered English from Old English 'tēorian', meaning 'to become weary or exhausted.' The suffix '-ing' turns the verb into an adjective that describes something that causes the feeling of tiredness. The adjective form has been in use since the 16th century.