exhausting
Word family
- exhaustverbB1
- exhaustedadjectiveB1
- exhaustionnounB2
- exhaustiveadjectiveC1
Synonym discussion
Sense: adjective/1
All three words describe something that makes you tired, but with different emphasis. 'Tiring' is the mildest and most general — it simply means that something causes you to need rest. 'Exhausting' is much stronger: it means the activity drains almost all your energy. 'Draining' focuses on the gradual loss of emotional or mental energy, often used for difficult social situations or long periods of concentration. 'Taxing' highlights the high level of effort or demand placed on you, whether physical or mental. For example, a short walk on a sunny day might be tiring for someone who is ill, but it is not exhausting. A full day of caring for young children can be both emotionally draining and physically exhausting. A complex maths problem that takes all morning to solve could be mentally taxing.
Common collocations
Etymology
Derived from the verb 'exhaust', which comes from Latin 'exhaustus' — the past participle of 'exhaurire' ('ex-' meaning 'out' + 'haurire' meaning 'to draw, drain'). Originally meant 'to draw out completely', like draining water from a container. By the 17th century it was being used for strength or energy, and adding the suffix '-ing' (meaning 'causing') gave the adjective 'exhausting'.