offensive
Word family
Synonym discussion
Sense: adjective/1
All four words describe speech or behaviour that hurts other people, but they sit at different levels. 'Rude' is the most everyday and the mildest — a child interrupting an adult is rude, not offensive. 'Disrespectful' focuses on showing too little regard for someone's status, beliefs, or culture; it is more formal and often used in workplaces or schools. 'Offensive' is stronger: it suggests the words or images cross a line and could hurt a whole group of people, not just one listener. 'Insulting' is the most direct and personal — an insulting comment is clearly aimed at one person to make them feel small. Compare: 'Don't talk with your mouth full, it's rude'; 'It was disrespectful of him to leave during the speech'; 'Many readers found the cartoon offensive'; 'She told him his words were insulting and walked out.'
Common collocations
Nouns
- offensive language
- offensive remark
- offensive joke
- offensive smell
- offensive weapon
- offensive operation
- offensive line
- offensive player
Phrases
- find something offensive
- consider something offensive
- launch an offensive
- go on the offensive
- take the offensive
Prepositions
- offensive to
- offensive against
Etymology
Borrowed into English in the early 1500s from Middle French 'offensif', which itself came from Medieval Latin 'offensivus'. The Latin root is the verb 'offendere', meaning to strike against or to displease, formed from 'ob-' (against) plus 'fendere' (to strike). The two main strands of the modern English word — 'attacking an enemy' and 'hurting someone's feelings' — both grow naturally out of this older idea of striking against something.