obedience
Word family
- obeyverbB1
- obedientadjectiveB2
- obedientlyadverbC1
- disobediencenounC1
- disobeyverbB2
- disobedientadjectiveB2
Synonym discussion
Sense: noun/1
All four nouns describe a person doing what someone else wants, but they differ in tone and context. 'Obedience' is the most general word and often appears in writing about children, soldiers, animals, and religion; it can sound positive (a well-trained dog) or critical (blind obedience). 'Compliance' is more formal and businesslike — companies talk about compliance with laws or safety rules, without any feeling of personal loyalty. 'Submission' is much stronger and usually negative, suggesting that someone has given up their own will, often after pressure or force. 'Deference', by contrast, is polite respect shown to an older or more important person, and the speaker may not actually do everything the other person says. Compare: 'The clerk's compliance with the new tax rules' (cool, official) versus 'the clerk's deference to the elderly judge' (respectful) versus 'her quiet submission to her cruel husband' (sad, forced).
Common collocations
Etymology
Came into English in the 1200s through Old French 'obedience', which itself came from Latin 'oboedientia', formed from 'oboedire' meaning 'to listen to, pay attention to'. The Latin verb is built from 'ob-' ('toward') and 'audire' ('to hear'), so the original idea was literally 'turning your ear toward someone' — listening carefully and then doing what they say. The link with hearing is also visible in English words like 'audible' and 'audience'.