selective
Word family
- selectverbB1
- selectadjectiveB2
- selectionnounB1
- selectivelyadverbB2
- selectivitynounC1
- selectivenessnounC1
- selectornounB2
Synonym discussion
Sense: adjective/1
All four words describe someone who does not accept everything, but they differ in tone and register. 'Selective' is the most neutral and widely used — it simply indicates a deliberate choice to accept only certain options. 'Picky' and 'choosy' are informal and slightly negative, suggesting someone is unnecessarily difficult to please ('my picky toddler refuses all vegetables'). 'Discerning' is formal and approving — it implies refined taste and good judgment, often applied to experts or connoisseurs ('a discerning wine collector'). In formal contexts, use 'selective' or 'discerning'; in casual conversation, 'picky' and 'choosy' are appropriate but can sound critical. For example: 'The gallery is selective about which artists it shows' (neutral, professional); 'She's picky about where she eats' (casual, mildly critical); 'He's a discerning art buyer' (admiring, formal).
Common collocations
Etymology
The word 'selective' was formed in English around the early 1600s by joining 'select' (meaning 'chosen specially, picked out') with the suffix '-ive', which turns verbs into adjectives meaning 'having the quality of'. 'Select' itself comes from Latin 'selectus', the past participle of 'seligere' — 'se-' meaning 'apart' and 'ligere' meaning 'to choose'. So at its root, 'selective' literally means 'having the quality of choosing apart'. The educational sense of 'selective school' developed in British English during the 20th century alongside the grammar school system.