abandon
Word family
- abandonedadjectiveB2
- abandonmentnounC1
Synonym discussion
Sense: verb/1
All four words describe going away from someone or something, but they differ in tone and weight. 'Leave' is the neutral everyday choice and says nothing about whether you plan to return: 'I left my bag at school.' 'Abandon' adds the idea of finality and often of not caring what happens next, which is why we say 'abandon ship', 'abandon a car', or 'abandon a baby'. 'Desert' is heavier still and almost always carries blame: a soldier deserts his post, a partner deserts a family. 'Forsake' is literary and rare in modern speech; you meet it in wedding vows ('forsaking all others') or older novels, where the focus is on giving up close ties for moral or emotional reasons. So a tourist might leave a hotel, but only a captain abandons a sinking ferry, and only a parent forsakes a child.
Common collocations
Nouns
- abandon ship
- abandon a plan
- abandon a project
- abandon hope
- abandon a baby
- abandon a car
Adverbs
- completely abandon
- totally abandon
- quickly abandon
- later abandoned
- long abandoned
Phrases
- abandon all hope
- abandon ship
- with reckless abandon
- with wild abandon
Prepositions
- abandon to (its fate)
- abandon for
- with abandon
Etymology
'Abandon' came into English in the late 14th century from Old French 'abandoner', meaning to give up or surrender something to another's control. The Old French verb itself grew from the phrase 'a bandon', literally 'into the power of', where 'bandon' meant authority or control (related to modern 'ban'). The earliest English sense was 'to give over to someone else's power'; from there it shifted towards leaving people or things behind, and later to giving up plans or feelings. The noun, found in English from the early 17th century, kept the older flavour of 'letting go of all control' — which is why we still say 'with abandon'.