restrain
Word family
- restraintnounB2
- restrainedadjectiveB2
- restrainingadjectiveC1
- unrestrainedadjectiveC1
- restrainernounC2
Synonym discussion
Sense: verb/2
All five words can describe keeping a feeling or reaction inside, but they differ in intensity and style. 'Restrain' is the most precise for actively stopping yourself from acting: you want to do something but choose not to. 'Control' is broader — it can mean managing an emotion over time rather than stopping a single impulse. 'Hold back' is less formal and more physical in feel, often used for tears or laughter ('she held back her tears'). 'Suppress' is stronger and implies forcing a feeling down completely, sometimes with long-term effort or in a way that feels unhealthy. 'Contain' suggests preventing a feeling from spreading to others ('he contained his frustration so the team stayed positive'). For everyday situations, 'restrain yourself' and 'hold back' are the most natural choices; 'suppress' and 'contain' are more formal and carry extra overtones of force or strategy.
Common collocations
Etymology
Comes from Latin 'restringere', meaning 'to draw back tightly or bind fast', formed from 're-' (back) and 'stringere' (to draw tight, to bind). The word entered English through Old French 'restreindre' in the 1300s. Over time the meaning moved from the physical act of tying up (literal binding) to the figurative sense of holding back emotions, growth, or actions.