restraint
Word family
- restrainverbB2
- restrainedadjectiveB2
- unrestrainedadjectiveC1
- restrainingadjectiveC1
Synonym discussion
Sense: noun/1
Self-control is the broadest term, covering the general ability to manage your own emotions, desires, and impulses. Restraint (sense 1) is more specific — it suggests holding back a reaction or urge, especially in a social or emotional context. Composure focuses on staying calm and steady under stress, without the sense of resisting strong temptation. Moderation is about avoiding extremes, particularly in eating, drinking, or spending. Discipline implies training and consistent effort toward a goal, such as studying regularly. For example, you might show restraint by not laughing at an inappropriate moment, maintain composure during a job interview, practise moderation in your diet, and need discipline to exercise every morning.
Common collocations
Etymology
The word 'restraint' comes from the Old French 'restreinte', a noun form of 'restreindre' (to hold back). The French verb itself came from the Latin 'restringere', which combines 're-' meaning 'back' and 'stringere' meaning 'to draw tight' or 'to bind'. The original image was of pulling a rope tight to keep something from moving — a picture that still fits the modern physical sense (sense 3) as well as the broader idea of holding back or limiting.