who
Word family
Synonym discussion
Sense: pronoun/4
All four words can introduce relative clauses, but they differ in usage. 'Who' refers to people and works as both subject and object in everyday English ('the woman who called'). 'Whom' is the formal object form ('the woman whom I called'), but it is becoming rare in speech and many writers now use 'who' in object position. 'That' is a versatile alternative for both people and things in defining clauses ('the woman that called'), though it cannot follow a preposition directly or begin a non-restrictive (comma) clause. 'Which' is used only for things and animals ('the book which I read'), never for people. In non-defining clauses — those set off by commas that add extra information — 'who' and 'which' are used but 'that' is not: 'My sister, who lives in Taipei, is a doctor.'
Etymology
From Old English 'hwā' (interrogative pronoun), tracing back through Proto-Germanic '*hwas' / '*hwō' to the Proto-Indo-European root '*kʷos' / '*kʷis', which also produced Latin 'quis' (who?) and Sanskrit 'káḥ' (who?). The word has served as an interrogative pronoun for over a thousand years in English, with its basic form changing surprisingly little.