spat
Word family
- spitverbA2
- spatterverbC1
- spattingnounC2
- spatsnoun (plural only)C1
Synonym discussion
Sense: noun/1
All four words describe a verbal conflict between people, but they differ in length, seriousness, and tone. 'Quarrel' is the most general: it can be short or long, mild or serious. 'Squabble' adds a sense of pettiness and often childish noise — you might overhear children squabbling over a toy. 'Tiff' is the mildest and most playful, typically between people in a close relationship; a romantic couple might have a tiff over which film to watch and forget it an hour later. 'Disagreement' is the most neutral and formal — it can describe any difference of opinion, from a polite discussion to a heated debate. 'Spat' sits between 'tiff' and 'squabble': it is brief and about something unimportant, but it can carry a sharper, more irritated tone than 'tiff'. For example: 'Their spat over the parking space was over in two minutes, but everyone at the party heard it.'
Common collocations
Etymology
The word 'spat' comes from several different origins that converged into one spelling. The 'petty quarrel' meaning (both noun and verb) probably comes from the American English of the early 1800s, possibly imitating the sound of a quick, light slap or dispute. The shoe-covering meaning comes from the shortening of 'spatterdashes' (17th-century leggings worn to protect against mud and spatter). The biological term for a young oyster comes from the Old English 'spæt' meaning spawn or offspring of shellfish. Meanwhile, 'spat' as the past form of 'spit' is an older Germanic past tense that developed naturally from the ancestor of modern English.