scared
Word family
Synonym discussion
Sense: adjective/1
All four describe a feeling of fear, but they differ in intensity and typical use. 'Afraid' is the most neutral and can express mild worry ('I am afraid I cannot come') — it also works as a polite hesitation marker. 'Scared' is more direct and emotional, common in everyday speech about immediate threats. 'Frightened' often describes a sudden shock or a reaction to something specific, like a loud noise. 'Terrified' is much stronger — it means extremely scared, almost unable to act. 'Alarmed' suggests a sudden awareness of danger, often with a need to respond quickly. For example: 'She was scared of flying but not terrified; the loud bang during takeoff frightened her, and she felt alarmed when the seatbelt sign stayed on.'
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Etymology
'Scared' comes from the Middle English word 'skerren', meaning 'to frighten', which was borrowed from Old Norse 'skirra' (to shrink from or avoid). The word entered English through contact with Scandinavian settlers in northern England. Over time, the sense shifted from the cause ('scare' as a verb meaning 'to frighten') to the resulting feeling ('scared' as an adjective).