norm
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Sense: noun/1
All three words describe a shared model for how things should be done, but they differ in formality and scope. A 'standard' is often an explicit, agreed-upon criterion — it can be official or widely accepted ('safety standards', 'industry standard'). A 'convention' is an unwritten rule that arises through repeated use rather than by formal agreement, and the word carries a slightly formal tone ('social conventions', 'conventions of politeness'). 'Custom' focuses on long-established personal or community traditions, often specific to a culture or family ('the custom of giving red envelopes at Lunar New Year'). Compared to these, 'norm' leans toward what the majority actually does or approves of, whether or not it is formally written down. For example: 'It is the norm to shake hands at business meetings, but in some cultures the convention is to bow. Following local custom can help you avoid awkward moments.'
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Etymology
The word 'norm' comes from Latin 'norma', which originally meant a carpenter's square — a tool used to measure right angles and ensure straight lines. From this literal meaning of 'a rule for measuring', the word developed the figurative sense of 'a rule or pattern for behaviour'. It entered English in the early 1800s via French 'norme', first used in mathematics and philosophy before spreading to sociology and everyday language.