well-behaved
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Synonym discussion
Sense: adjective/1
Well-behaved describes someone who follows rules and acts with good manners, often used for children, students, or pets. Obedient is stronger — it emphasises doing what you are told without question, and is more common for dogs than for people in everyday speech. Polite focuses on having good manners such as saying 'please' and 'thank you' and not interrupting, but does not necessarily imply following rules. Well-mannered is very close to well-behaved but sounds slightly more formal and is often used for adults. For example, a well-behaved child both follows the teacher's instructions and speaks politely to classmates, while a child can be polite (saying the right words) but not well-behaved (running around the room).
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Etymology
The word well-behaved is formed from the adverb well (meaning 'in a good or proper manner') and the past participle behaved, from the verb behave. The verb behave comes from the Old English phrase behabban, meaning 'to have, contain, or restrain oneself'. The compound adjective first appeared in English writing in the late 1500s.