groom

groom — noun

1. a man who is about to get married or has just got married, usually seen as centr

1.nounB1
Definition

a man who is about to get married or has just got married, usually seen as central to the wedding ceremony along with the bride

Example

The bridegroom shook hands with each guest as they arrived at the church.

Chiara's mother cried when she saw the bridegroom waiting at the altar.

Common collocations
  • bride and groom
  • the bridegroom's family
  • best man
Synonyms
  • husband-to-be

    less common in casual speech; focuses on the future married status rather than the wedding event

Antonyms
  • bride

    the woman getting married on the same occasion

Usage Note

In everyday conversation, 'groom' is much more common than 'bridegroom'. Both refer to the same person — the man at a wedding.

Common Mistakes

The groomer looked nervous at the wedding.
The groom looked nervous at the wedding.
'groomer' means someone who grooms animals, not the bridegroom.

2. a person employed at a stable or riding school to feed horses, brush their coats

2.nounB1
Definition

a person employed at a stable or riding school to feed horses, brush their coats, and keep their living areas clean

Example

The groom woke up at dawn to feed the horses before the riders arrived.

collocation: feed the horses

Esteban worked as a groom at the riding school for two summers.

Common collocations
  • work as a groom
  • stable groom
  • head groom
Synonyms
  • stable hand

    more general; may also do cleaning and maintenance work beyond caring for horses

  • horse handler

    emphasises working with horses during riding or training, not just daily care

groom — verb

Word family

  • grooming
    nounB2
  • bridegroom
    nounB1
  • groomer
    nounB2
  • well-groomed
    adjectiveB2

Synonym discussion

Sense: verb/1

While all four words relate to caring for an animal's appearance or hygiene, each has a different focus. 'Brush' is the narrowest — it refers specifically to using a brush to remove dirt, loose fur, or tangles, and works for any animal with fur or hair. 'Curry' is a specialised term for grooming a horse with a currycomb in a circular motion to loosen dirt and shed hair; it is not used for dogs, cats, or other pets. 'Clean' is the broadest of the group — it can mean washing, wiping, or bathing an animal and does not imply the specific brushing technique that 'groom' suggests. 'Tend' means to look after an animal's overall needs, including feeding, medical care, and comfort, not just its coat. For example: 'She brushed the dog after the walk', 'He curried the horse before saddling up', 'We cleaned the puppy with a damp towel', and 'The stable hand tends to the horses day and night.' Groom sits between 'clean' and 'brush' — it implies thorough, careful cleaning of the coat using tools such as brushes and combs.

Common collocations

Phrases

  • well-groomed
  • groomed to perfection

Prepositions

Etymology

Old EnglishMiddle EnglishEnglish

The word 'groom' has two separate historical paths that later merged. The noun sense of 'servant who tends horses' comes from Middle English 'grom' (boy, young man, servant), dating back to around 1200. Its origin before that is uncertain. The 'bridegroom' sense comes from Old English 'brȳdguma' (bride + man), where 'guma' meant 'man'. Over time, people replaced the unfamiliar 'guma' with the more familiar 'groom', creating the modern word 'bridegroom'. The verb senses developed later: first 'to tend horses' (17th century), then 'to make neat' (19th century), and later 'to prepare someone for a role' (20th century). The criminal sense of 'child exploitation' emerged in the late 20th century.