conform
Word family
- conformitynounB2
- conformistnounC1
- conformistadjectiveC1
- nonconformistnounC1
- nonconformistadjectiveC1
- nonconformitynounC1
- conformableadjectiveC2
Synonym discussion
Sense: verb/1
'Comply' is more passive and rule-focused: you comply with a specific request or regulation, not with a general social atmosphere. 'Fit in' is the informal, everyday word for social conformity — it implies being accepted by others rather than following rules. 'Adhere' carries a sense of strict commitment, often to principles or guidelines, and is more formal than 'conform'. 'Obey' implies a power relationship — someone with authority gives an order, and you carry it out. For example, a teenager might conform to peer pressure by dressing like friends (social norm), but obey their parents by coming home on time (authority). Choosing between these words depends on whether the focus is on social acceptance ('fit in', 'conform'), rule-following ('comply', 'adhere'), or submission to authority ('obey').
Common collocations
Etymology
From Latin 'conformare' — the prefix 'con-' means 'together' and 'formare' means 'to shape'. So the original idea was 'to shape together', to make one thing take the same form as another. The word entered English through Old French 'conformer' in the 1300s. The modern uses — following social norms, obeying rules, and matching in character — all grow from this core image of things being brought into the same shape.