apology
Word family
- apologiseverbB1
- apologizeverbB1
- apologeticadjectiveC1
- apologeticallyadverbC1
- apologistnounC2
Synonym discussion
Sense: noun/1
All four words deal with admitting that something went wrong, but they sit at different points on a politeness and responsibility scale. 'Apology' is the formal noun for the whole act of saying you were wrong, and it usually accepts blame: 'a sincere apology'. 'Excuse' shifts the focus the other way — it is a reason given to lessen blame, and can sound defensive: 'Don't make excuses; just say sorry.' 'Regret' names the inner feeling of wishing you had not done something, with no public statement required: 'She lived with deep regret.' 'Sorry' is the most everyday word, said directly to a person: 'I'm sorry I'm late.' Use 'apology' when the act is formal, written, or public; use 'sorry' for spoken, in-the-moment moments.
Common collocations
Nouns
- apology letter
- apology email
Phrases
- accept an apology
- demand an apology
- owe someone an apology
- issue an apology
- without apology
Prepositions
- apology for
- apology to
- apology from
Etymology
Reached English in the late 1500s through French 'apologie' from Latin 'apologia', borrowed from Greek 'apologia' meaning 'a speech in defence' (apo- 'away' + logos 'speech'). The original sense was the courtroom one — defending an idea or person against attack — which survives in titles like Plato's 'Apology'. The modern 'saying sorry' meaning grew during the 1700s as people used the word for explanations of personal behaviour, then for full admissions of fault.