scolding
Word family
- scoldverbB1
- scoldernounC1
Synonym discussion
Sense: noun/1
All five words describe a negative response to someone's behaviour, but they differ in formality, intensity, and context. A scolding is the everyday word — it fits both home and school settings and carries a neutral-to-slightly-informal tone. A reprimand is more formal and official, commonly used in workplace or military contexts. A telling-off is distinctly informal British English, typical among friends, family, or between a teacher and a young child. A rebuke is more literary and serious, suggesting sharp disapproval for a moral failure. A lecture, by contrast, is longer and less angry — it is a patient explanation of why something was wrong, often given by a parent or teacher. For example: 'After a scolding from his dad, the boy apologized.' 'The officer received a formal reprimand.' 'The teacher gave the class a lecture on honesty.'
Common collocations
Etymology
The word comes from the verb scold, which entered English from Middle English scolden, meaning 'to find fault loudly or angrily.' This came from Old Norse skāld, which meant 'poet' — in Norse tradition, poets often composed satirical and critical verses about people, so the word shifted from 'one who writes critical poems' to 'one who constantly criticises or quarrels.' By the 1500s, scold referred to a person given to harsh, angry speech, and scolding became the noun for the act itself.