reconciliation
Word family
- reconcileverbB2
- reconcilableadjectiveC1
- irreconcilableadjectiveC1
- reconciledadjectiveB2
- reconciliatoryadjectiveC2
Synonym discussion
Sense: noun/1
Reconciliation, reunion, rapprochement, and settlement all describe repairing a broken relationship, but they differ in emphasis. Reconciliation focuses on resolving the underlying conflict and restoring goodwill — it implies that both sides have addressed their differences. A reunion simply means coming together again, with or without resolving what caused the split. Rapprochement is a formal term used mainly in politics and diplomacy, describing a gradual rebuilding of ties between nations. Settlement refers to reaching an agreement that ends a dispute, but the agreement may be purely practical — the parties might still dislike each other. For example, two business partners could reach a financial settlement without any personal reconciliation. When a couple stops arguing and starts trusting each other again, that is reconciliation. When old friends who drifted apart simply meet for coffee, that is a reunion.
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Etymology
The word 'reconciliation' comes from Latin reconciliātiō, formed from reconciliāre meaning 'to bring together again'. This breaks down into re- ('again') and conciliāre ('to unite, make friendly, win over'). Conciliāre itself comes from concilium ('assembly, meeting'). The word entered English through Old French reconciliacion in the 14th century, originally with a strong religious meaning of restoring a sinner to the Church. Over time, its use broadened to political and personal relationships, and later to the abstract idea of making opposing concepts compatible.