poisoned
Word family
Synonym discussion
Sense: verb/4
All four verbs describe damaging a relationship or situation, but they differ in intensity and mechanism. 'Poison' (this sense) suggests a slow, corrosive process — like a toxic substance spreading through a body — that eventually destroys the entire relationship or atmosphere. 'Spoil' is the broadest term: a spoiled party is less enjoyable but not necessarily ruined forever. 'Sour' focuses on turning something sweet into something bitter, often used for moods or friendships that grow resentful over time ('their friendship soured after the disagreement'). 'Undermine' is about gradual weakening rather than outright destruction — for example, gossip can undermine trust without fully poisoning the relationship. Use 'poison' when the damage feels deep, irreversible, or actively hostile, and 'spoil' or 'sour' for milder, more passive deterioration.
Common collocations
Nouns
- poison
- chemical waste
- pesticides
- arsenic
- contamination
Adverbs
- slowly
- deliberately
- accidentally
- fatally
- gradually
- intentionally
- systematically
Phrases
- poison someone's mind against
- poison the well
Etymology
The word 'poison' comes from Old French 'poison' (a drink, especially a medicinal drink), which in turn comes from Latin 'potionem' (a drink, a potion). Over time, the meaning shifted from 'a drink' to 'a deadly drink' — the same Latin root also gave us 'potion'. The verb form 'to poison' appeared in English around the 1300s, originally meaning 'to give a poisonous drink to someone'.