modestly
Word family
Synonym discussion
Sense: adverb/2
All four words describe a lack of self-importance, but their contexts differ. Humbl(y) can imply low social rank or genuine inner modesty — it is the closest synonym to sense 2. Unassumingly suggests that a person does not try to appear important or impressive, often used for people with real achievements who stay quiet about them. Self-effacingly adds a touch of active avoidance — such a person might deflect praise with a joke or change the subject. Demurely overlaps more with sense 3: it describes a quiet, shy manner in both speech and appearance. For example: 'He humbly accepted the award' (genuine modesty), but 'She self-effacingly waved away the compliment' (active deflection), whereas 'She sat demurely in the corner' is about quietness and dress, not about avoiding praise.
Common collocations
Adverbs
- quite modestly
- very modestly
- rather modestly
- only modestly
Etymology
Comes from Latin 'modestus' meaning 'keeping within measure, moderate, restrained', which is related to 'modus' (measure, way). The word entered English through French 'modeste' and took on the senses of both limited degree and not boastful by the 16th century.