listener
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Sense: noun/2
A listener is anyone who pays attention when someone speaks, often used with an adjective to describe the quality of listening ('a patient listener'). A confidant implies a deeper trust — someone you share secrets or private worries with, expecting confidentiality. A counsellor is a trained professional who listens as part of a structured helping role, while a sympathiser focuses on sharing the other person's feelings or sorrow rather than simply hearing them out. For everyday emotional support, 'listener' is the most natural and widely used term. 'My sister is a good listener' is common; 'my sister is a good confidant' implies secrecy, and 'my sister is a good counsellor' would sound odd unless she is actually trained.
Common collocations
Phrases
- a good listener
Prepositions
- listener to [something / someone]
Etymology
Derived from the verb 'listen' (from Old English 'hlystan' meaning 'to pay attention to sounds') combined with the agent suffix '-er' ('one who does'). The word has been used in English since the 14th century.