kept
Word family
Synonym discussion
Sense: adjective/1
All three describe a situation in which one person relies on another for financial or material needs, but the connotations differ sharply. 'Dependent' is the broadest term, covering any situation — children, elderly parents, or a non-working spouse — without the romantic or judgmental overtone of 'kept'. 'Supported' is factual and neutral, often used in legal or financial contexts ('a supported spouse') and carries no built-in disapproval. 'Maintained' sounds formal and somewhat outdated when applied to people; it is now mostly used for equipment, systems, or buildings. When describing someone in a romantic arrangement where money is exchanged for companionship, only 'kept' suggests a critical or old-fashioned moral judgment. For example, saying 'she is a kept woman' implies a societal reproach, while 'she is financially dependent on her partner' is a neutral observation of fact.
Common collocations
Nouns
- kept promise
- kept record
- kept diary
- kept secret
Adverbs
- carefully kept
- well kept
- badly kept
- secretly kept
Phrases
- kept in mind
- kept at bay
- kept under control
- kept to oneself
Prepositions
- kept in
- kept from
- kept by
- kept under
Etymology
'Kept' is the irregular past-tense and past-participle form of the verb 'keep', which entered English from Old English 'cēpan' (to seize, to hold, to observe). The original sense was about physically grasping or laying hold of something. Over time its meaning broadened to include guarding, maintaining, and continuing an action or state. The adjective use — a person financially supported by a romantic partner — emerged in the 1800s and reflects a metaphorical extension of 'keeping' someone (i.e., providing for their needs in exchange for loyalty or companionship).