josh
Word family
- joshernounC1
- joshingadjectiveC1
Synonym discussion
Sense: verb/1
These words all describe playful communication, but they differ in tone and relationship. 'Josh' is the warmest and safest — it implies a friendly relationship and rules out any real malice. 'Kid' is very similar and, in American English, is far more common ('Are you kidding me?' vs. 'Are you joshing me?'). 'Tease' is the broadest term: it can be affectionate ('He teased his sister about her new boyfriend') or borderline cruel ('The kids teased the new student for his accent'). 'Rib' is more intense, suggesting persistent back-and-forth mockery among close friends ('His coworkers ribbed him mercilessly about the fishing trip'). 'Banter' is a noun or verb describing light, witty exchange without a clear target ('The atmosphere was full of friendly banter'). Use 'josh' when you want to emphasize that no harm was intended and the relationship was warm.
Common collocations
Etymology
The origin of 'josh' is not entirely clear, but it first appeared in American English around the 1840s. It may come from the name 'Joshua' (or its short form 'Josh'), which was used in the 19th century as a humorous, generic name for a country man or simpleton in minstrel shows. From this, the verb 'to josh' emerged meaning 'to make a fool of someone playfully', and later softened to the modern sense of gentle teasing. The noun sense developed directly from the verb.