hard-hearted
Word family
- hard-heartednessnounC1
- hardheartedlyadverbC2
Synonym discussion
Sense: adjective/1
All four words describe someone who does not show sympathy or care for others, but they differ in intensity and focus. Unfeeling is the most neutral of the group and emphasises a simple lack of emotional response — the person is not actively cruel, just emotionally blank. Cold-hearted highlights a deliberate emotional distance, as though the person has chilled their feelings to avoid engagement. Heartless is stronger and more accusing; it suggests an active disregard for others' pain, almost as if the person lacks a heart altogether. Pitiless zeroes in on the refusal to show mercy when mercy would be the natural response. For example, a hard-hearted landlord might raise rent without concern for the tenants, but a heartless landlord would also exploit their hardship for profit. A pitiless judge would hand down the harshest sentence without a moment of thoughtful consideration.
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Etymology
Hard-hearted is a compound of 'hard' (from Old English 'heard', meaning firm, tough, or unyielding) and 'hearted' (having a heart of a specified kind). The compound appeared in Middle English around the 1300s, describing a person whose heart has been hardened so that it no longer softens toward the suffering of others.