easy-going
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Synonym discussion
Sense: adjective/1
All four words describe a calm, untroubled personality, but they differ in formality and scope. Relaxed is the most general — it can describe a person, a mood, a place, or even clothing ('a relaxed evening with friends'). Laid-back is informal and strongly suggests that someone does not get stressed even in situations that would upset most people ('a laid-back surfer who never rushes'). Mellow is also informal and usually suggests a pleasant, gentle calmness that comes with comfort or age ('a mellow old dog that sleeps by the fire'). Carefree is positive but can carry a slight implication of avoiding responsibility ('a carefree summer vacation'). Easy-going is the most neutral and widely useful of the four for describing a person who accepts others without annoyance or judgment.
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Etymology
The term comes from the phrase 'easy going,' first used in the 1600s to describe a road or path that was comfortable and unhurried to travel on. By the 1800s, the meaning shifted from a physical journey to a person's way of moving through life — someone who has a comfortable, relaxed manner. The hyphenated form 'easy-going' became standard in the 1900s.