compassion
Word family
- compassionateadjectiveB2
- compassionatelyadverbC1
- compassionlessadjectiveC2
Synonym discussion
Sense: noun/1
Compassion, sympathy, empathy, pity, and mercy all relate to how we respond to someone in pain, but they differ in key ways. Sympathy is the most general — it means sharing a feeling of sadness for someone's situation, but it does not necessarily include a desire to act. Empathy is about mentally stepping into another person's shoes and understanding their feelings, while compassion adds an active wish to relieve the suffering. Pity can feel condescending because it highlights the gap between your own good fortune and the other person's misfortune. Mercy is narrower: it is compassion shown toward someone who has wronged you, by choosing not to punish them harshly. In everyday speech, 'I feel for you' (sympathy) differs from 'I want to help you' (compassion). For example, you might feel sympathy for a colleague who lost their job, but you show compassion by helping them update their résumé.
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Etymology
Compassion entered English through Old French from Latin compassio, a word made of com- meaning 'together' and pati meaning 'to suffer'. So the root meaning is 'to suffer together with someone' — which captures the idea of sharing another person's pain rather than just observing it from a distance.