suitor
Word family
Synonym discussion
Sense: noun/1
All three words describe men with romantic interest in a woman, but they differ in intensity and timeframe. An 'admirer' expresses fondness or attraction without necessarily acting on it — you might have a secret admirer who sends anonymous letters, but no marriage proposal follows. A 'wooer' actively tries to win affection through gestures and attention; the word feels deliberately old-fashioned and appears mostly in historical novels or formal descriptions of courtship. 'Beau' was once common for a woman's romantic companion; today it sounds slightly dated but is still understood ('She arrived with her beau'). 'Suitor' carries the strongest expectation of marriage and is the most formal of the four. In a sentence: 'Emily had several admirers at the ball, but only one serious suitor asked her father for permission to court her.'
Common collocations
Nouns
- suitor + bid
- suitor + offer
- suitor + proposal
Phrases
- potential suitor
- unexpected suitor
- hostile suitor
- rejected suitor
- wealthy suitor
Prepositions
- suitor for (her hand / the company)
Etymology
Derived from Latin 'sequi' meaning 'to follow'. The Latin verb produced 'secutor' (follower), which passed into Old French as 'suitor' (one who follows or pursues). By the 15th century, Middle English 'sutour' referred to a person who followed a woman with romantic intentions. The business-takeover sense emerged in the mid-20th century, preserving the core idea of pursuit and persuasion.