confer
Word family
- conferencenounB2
- confermentnounC1
- conferralnounC1
Synonym discussion
Sense: verb/1
All four involve talking with others, but they differ in formality and purpose. 'Confer' (formal) implies an exchange among equals trying to reach a decision. 'Consult' suggests one party seeks expert advice from another — you consult a doctor or a lawyer, which is not necessarily an equal exchange. 'Discuss' is the most general and neutral, covering any exchange of opinions regardless of seriousness. 'Deliberate' (also formal) emphasises slow, careful weighing of options, often in a legal or political setting. For example: the partners conferred before the merger; she consulted a financial advisor; they discussed weekend plans; the jury deliberated for two days.
Etymology
From Latin 'conferre' — 'com-' (together) + 'ferre' (to bring, carry). Originally meant 'to bring together', which developed in two directions: bringing people together to talk (sense 1) and bringing benefits or honours to someone (sense 2). Entered English through Old French 'conférer' in the 1500s.